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ZI WEI DOU SHU - 2 SIBLINGS HOUSE

 





    1. OVERVIEW OF THE SIBLINGS HOUSE

    1. The Meaning
    The Siblings House in a Zi Wei Dou Shu chart offers insight into key relationships. Also called the Servants/Assistant House, it represents your brothers, sisters, close friends, and even potential business partners. It can indicate how many siblings you may have, their personalities, and the level of support you can expect from them. This house also reflects how well you cooperate with these people—whether your connections are harmonious or prone to disagreements. Overall, it helps you understand the quality of your closest bonds outside of parents or a spouse.

    2. In the Natal Chart
    This house highlights your mother and any older same-sex siblings, revealing their talents, abilities, and personalities. It also shows the strength of your fate connection with them and how well you are likely to get along, giving insight into the closeness and quality of these family ties.

    3. In the Luck or Period Chart
    The meaning expands to include your mother, siblings, and close friends such as best girlfriends or sworn brothers. It reveals how these relationships develop during that period, along with matters related to shared money, resources, or business partnerships. For this reason, the Siblings House is an important reference when evaluating future partnerships, financial cooperation, or the strength of supportive connections in your life.


    2. CONNECTIONS

    1. Siblings House and Friends House (Opposite House)
    This connection suggests that by looking at the Friends House, you can see how your mother or siblings behave outside the home or in social situations. It reflects their interactions with friends, colleagues, or the wider community.

    2. Siblings House and Property House 
    The Siblings House is linked to the Property House through this Qi Pair connection. This relationship ties it to your family’s living environment, home feng shui, and matters like the division or inheritance of family property. It can show how property issues might affect your relationships with siblings or your mother.

    3. Siblings House and Health House
    The Siblings House is also paired with the Health House. This link points to shared health concerns, physical well-being, or even accident risks connected to your family or close companions. It can hint at times when health matters could influence family or friendship bonds.

    3. TIPS FOR READING THE SIBLINGS HOUSE

    1. Don’t Overlook Siblings House
    Even though some people might think this house is “idle” or not very important, ignoring it can make your whole reading less accurate. Every house has a role, and this one can quietly influence many parts of life.

    2. Wealth - Cash Flow and Liquid Funds
    This house is used to check your financial movement, especially your cash flow. It doesn’t just point to big assets like property or investments - it focuses on how money flows in and out of your hands. Healthy cash flow often means you can handle unexpected expenses or opportunities without stress.

    3. Health - Severity or Spread of Illness
    You can also use this house to judge health matters. It can show how serious an illness might become or whether it might spread or affect other areas of your life. Reading it carefully can help you understand if a health issue is minor, or if it requires more attention and care. 

    4. Partnerships - Relationship Quality
    In relationships, this house can give clues about the quality and harmony between partners. It doesn’t only apply to romantic couples - it can also reflect business partners or close allies. A balanced reading here can reveal whether cooperation is smooth or if conflicts may arise. 

    5. Advanced Use - Hidden Helpers or Troublemakers
    For more advanced readings, this house can reveal hidden influences in your life. These could be supportive people like a mother, aunt, godmother, sibling, or a loyal friend who steps in at just the right time. On the other hand, it can also point out troublemakers or people who might quietly create obstacles. Spotting these patterns can help you prepare and respond wisely.

    4. STARS IN THE SIBLINGS HOUSE

    These are meant as general patterns and may not apply in every case.

    A. THE 14 MAJOR STARS IN THE SIBLINGS HOUSE

    1. Zi Wei (The Emperor Star)
    Zi Wei respects others and values relationships, but they prefer people to follow their ideas or decisions. They like to take the lead and guide those around them. 

    2. Wu Qu (The Military Star)
    Wu Qu is practical and realistic. They do not show much sentimentality and prefer to look at situations logically rather than emotionally.

    3. Ju Men (The Messenger Star)
    Ju Men can speak either kindly or harshly, depending on their mood or situation. Even when their words seem careless, they usually don’t mean harm. 

    4. Po Jun (The Disruptor Star)
    Po Jun is passionate and determined. They chase their dreams with persistence, but their stubborn nature can lead to disagreements or quarrels with others. 

    5. Tan Lang (The Charmer Star)
    Tan Lang can be charming and friendly at times, but at other times they may be hard to get along with. Their moods or behavior can shift, making them unpredictable. 

    6. Lian Zhen (The Integrity Star)
    Lian Zhen cares about people deeply but does not always show it openly. On the outside, they may seem indifferent, but their feelings run strong beneath the surface.

    7. Tai Yang (The Sun Star)
    Tai Yang is warm and caring. They like to look after others, but their strong personality can sometimes come across as dominant or controlling.

    8. Tai Yin (The Moon Star)
    Tai Yin enjoys attending social gatherings and being part of the group. However, they keep their true emotions private and maintain some distance from others.
     
    9. Tian Ji (The Strategist Star)
    Tian Ji is changeable and strategic. They may be very close and supportive sometimes but distant at other times, often thinking carefully about their actions and plans. 

    10. Tian Fu (The Treasury Star)
    Tian Fu is generous with material support or resources. They are willing to provide help but also expect their opinions and contributions to be recognized and valued. 

    11. Tian Tong (The Relaxed Star)
    Tian Tong enjoys sharing blessings, happiness, and comfort. They prefer cooperation and teamwork and do not like unnecessary conflict or fussiness. 

    12. Tian Liang (The Blessing Star)
    Tian Liang is caring and protective but only within the limits of their own rules and values. They expect others to respect their principles. 

    13. Tian Xiang (The Minister Star)
    Tian Xiang is helpful, careful, and good at communicating. They can mediate situations well and make people feel understood and supported. 

    14. Qi Sha (The Power Star)
    Qi Sha is bold and brave. This person loves deeply or dislikes strongly, without much middle ground. They are generous and willing to help, but their moods can change quickly, which may confuse others.


    B. THE SUPPORT STARS IN THE SIBLINGS HOUSE

    Note that these interpretations are general in nature.

    1. Wen Chang (The Intellect Star)
    With Wen Chang, it suggests some siblings are famous for their writing or artistic talents. They bring happiness and peace of mind to the family. Sibling relationships are very close and spiritually connected. 

    Wen Chang transforms to Ke: Youll receive financial help from siblings or friends. 
    Wen Chang transforms to Ji: Prone to financial or property disputes with siblings or friends. 

    2. Wen Qu (The Intelligence Star)
    With Wen Qu, your siblings or friends are a source of joy. You can freely share ideas with your brothers and sisters, and they provide strong support. 

    Wen Qu transforms to Ke: Youll receive financial help from siblings or friends. 
    Wen Qu transforms to Ji: Likely to have money or property disputes with siblings or friends. 

    3. Zuo Fu (The Deputy 1 Star)
    With Zuo Fu, your brothers and sisters are quite intelligent. Relationships are good, and even after growing up and living separately, they often give you strong support. 

    Zuo Fu transforms to Ke: Brothers and sisters are very united. 

    4. You Bi (The Deputy 2 Star)
    With You Bi, you get along well with your siblings. They are motivated and ambitious, encouraging each other to succeed. 

    You Bi transforms to Ke: Brothers and sisters are very united.


    C. THE FOUR TRANSFORMATIONS IN THE SIBLINGS HOUSE

    Note that these interpretations are general in nature.

    1. Hua Lu (Abundance)
    Wealthy or supportive siblings.

    2. Hua Quan (Power)
    Influential siblings. Siblings or friends may hold power or authority—you might need to be willing to play “second in command.”

    3. Hua Ke (Fame)
    Harmonious and helpful. Siblings are talented and well-educated.

    4. Hua Ji (Annoyance)
    Disputes, burdens, or setbacks. Discord with siblings and a tendency to attract petty troublemakers.

    D. THE MINOR STARS IN THE SIBLINGS HOUSE

    Note that these interpretations are general in nature.

    4 FAVORABLE STARS

    1. Lu Cun (The Wealth Star)
    With Lu Cun, you usually have few or no siblings—often an only child.

    2. Tian Ma (The Movement Star)
    When Tian Ma is in the Siblings House, siblings are always busy with outside activities, so their bond isn’t very deep. Everyone focuses on outward pursuits and neglects deeper family connection. 

    3. Tian Kui (The Angel Star 1)
    Tian Kui suggests one of your siblings will achieve high status or great accomplishments.

    4. Tian Yue (The Angel Star 2)
    Tian Yue here also indicates you have an influential or noble sibling. 

      6 CHALLENGING STARS

      1. Huo Xing (The Fiery Star)
      With Huo Xing, you’re prone to conflict with siblings. A fiery temperament creates distance, and avoiding contact might seem easier, leading to colder relationships.

      2. Ling Xing (The Siren Star)
      Ling Xing makes arguments and differences of opinion with siblings more likely, weakening family bonds. 

      3. Qing Yang (The Knife Star)
      When Qing Yang is properly positioned here, it often means disharmony with siblings. 

      4. Tuo Luo (The Obstruction Star)
      Tuo Luo suggests your brothers or sisters have strong personalities, which can cause frequent clashes in daily life.

      5. Di Kong (The Misfortune Star)
      With Di Kong here, you may feel no real connection with your siblings, almost ignoring their existence. You prefer independence and self-reliance, believing their help—or lack of it—doesn’t matter.

      6. Di Jie (The Calamity Star)
      Di Jie shows little emotional bond with siblings. You may even value friends more than brothers or sisters, again echoing the idea that “having or not having siblings feels the same.”

      5. SIBLINGS HOUSE BY ZODIAC BRANCH 

      1. Rat
      Relationships with siblings and friends are generally calm and rational. There is no unnecessary drama or overexcitement, but this does not mean a lack of care. The Rat handles connections with a balanced heart—thoughtful without being overly emotional, steady without being cold. This makes others feel respected and understood, even if the expression of affection is subtle.

      2. Ox
      Interactions may begin quietly and even a little distant, as the Ox is not quick to open up. However, once bonds are established, they are deeply rooted and stable. Friends and siblings can rely on the Ox for loyalty and steadiness, knowing that these relationships will endure over time, even through silence or lack of constant interaction.

      3. Tiger
      Friendships with siblings and peers are marked by directness and honesty. The Tiger does not hide feelings or harbor secret grudges, preferring open communication. This straightforward approach makes relationships refreshing and trustworthy, though sometimes blunt. The Tiger thrives in connections where sincerity is valued.

      4. Rabbit
      Building friendships and sibling bonds can feel awkward at first, as the Rabbit is cautious about opening up emotionally. However, once trust and affection are established, the ties become warm, loyal, and long-lasting. Friends and siblings often discover a gentle depth in the Rabbit’s heart, one that values true companionship over surface-level closeness.

      5. Dragon
      The Dragon forms strong and steady attachments to siblings and friends. Their loyalty and sense of connection do not waver easily, and it takes significant conflict to break these bonds. Once committed to a relationship, the Dragon invests wholeheartedly, creating a dependable foundation that others can rely on for the long term.

      6. Snake
      Connections with siblings and friends are shaped by courtesy, mutual respect, and etiquette. The Snake prefers measured, polite interactions rather than impulsive displays of emotion. While this can sometimes feel formal, it ensures that relationships remain harmonious, considerate, and free from unnecessary conflict.

      7. Horse
      Siblings and friends of the Horse are often lively, stylish, and fond of social activities. Friendships tend to revolve around gatherings, entertainment, and dynamic exchanges. The Horse enjoys sharing energy with others, bringing fun and vibrancy into these relationships, though sometimes the excitement may overshadow deeper bonds.

      8. Goat
      Friendships with siblings and peers are enduring but not without complications. While the Goat values long-term loyalty, small misunderstandings or unspoken feelings can cast subtle shadows over these ties. Still, the bonds are rarely broken, as the Goat’s gentle nature seeks reconciliation rather than separation.

      9. Monkey
      The Monkey’s approach to friendships and sibling ties varies depending on the situation. Sometimes supportive, sometimes demanding, the Monkey can even appear strict or harsh toward those close to them. Despite this, there is usually an underlying intention of care, though the inconsistency may confuse friends and siblings.

      10. Rooster
      Instability marks the Rooster’s relationships with siblings and friends. Bonds may form quickly but are just as easily broken, with a tendency toward fickleness. While the Rooster enjoys connections in the moment, long-term endurance is harder to maintain unless there is effort to strengthen mutual trust.

      11. Dog
      For the Dog, friendships and sibling ties bring a strong sense of safety and emotional grounding. These relationships are built on deep trust, reliability, and support. In times of difficulty, the Dog can count on siblings and friends to provide genuine help and loyalty, making these bonds a dependable refuge.

      12. Pig
      Relationships with siblings and friends tend to be distant or emotionally indifferent. The Pig may find that siblings feel more like acquaintances than family, offering little support in critical times. Friendships may lack closeness or involvement, creating a sense of isolation unless effort is made to bridge the gap.


      6. KEY POINTS

      1. The Role of the Siblings House
      In Zi Wei Dou Shu, life is divided into twelve different palaces, each representing a key aspect of existence. The Siblings House is one of these houses, and it does not only speak about your brothers and sisters. It also extends its meaning to close friends, peers, and sometimes even colleagues. Essentially, this house describes how you connect with people who feel like family or those you naturally stand alongside in life.

      2. Looking at the Opposite House
      To gain a full picture, the Siblings House should not be read in isolation. Its opposite house, often referred to as the Friends, Servants, Assistance or Staff House, provides additional context. When read together, the two houses reveal the broader patterns of your support system—how well you get along with people, whether they assist you, and whether you can rely on them during important stages of life.

      3. The Movement of Stars
      Every year, different stars shift and pass through the Siblings House. These movements bring temporary influences that can highlight harmony or tension. When auspicious stars are present, they typically indicate peace, affection, and cooperative bonds with siblings and peers. On the other hand, when inauspicious or troublesome stars appear, they may suggest quarrels, distance, misunderstandings, or even rivalry.

      4. The Quality of Support
      The overall condition of the Siblings House depends on which stars are permanently stationed there and how they interact. If the house contains supportive or well-positioned stars, it often shows that siblings and close friends will be reliable allies. Such people may bring encouragement, resources, or companionship at critical times. However, if the house is marked by difficult stars or problematic combinations, the reading leans toward weaker bonds—suggesting estrangement, emotional distance, or little practical support from siblings or peers.

      5. Practical Meaning
      Ultimately, the Siblings House reflects how much harmony, loyalty, or help you can expect from those closest to you by blood or chosen ties. A strong and well-supported house points to relationships that serve as a safety net throughout life. A weaker or troubled house signals the need to develop independence, create your own chosen family, or manage expectations about the support siblings and friends can realistically provide.


      Remember: These are general interpretations; their true meaning for you depends on the unique details of your individual birth chart and specific star placements and configurations. 

      All the stars discussed in this article are analyzed using the San He method to provide deeper insights. The Si Hua method doesn’t emphasize the detailed traits of individual stars or most of the minor stars; instead, it concentrates on the four transformers (Si Hua) to interpret outcomes.

      Note: Since this star has been translated into many different English names both online and offline, preserving its original name in this article is essential to convey its true meaning.


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