1. OVERVIEW OF THE CHILDREN HOUSE
The Children House in your Zi Wei Dou Shu chart focuses on everything related to your children and your connection with younger generations. It can reveal how many children you might have, their personalities, health, and the kind of success they may achieve in life.
2. Parent–Child Relationship
This house also describes the quality of your parent–child bond—how close you will feel to your children, whether they will be respectful and supportive, and how your relationship with them may develop as they grow older.
3. Fertility and Romantic Clues
Because children are born through marital intimacy, the Children House can also give clues about your fertility, sexual preferences, and even potential romantic complications.
4. Influence Beyond Children
Beyond your own children, it reflects your relationships with younger people in general, such as students, protégés, or junior colleagues whom you mentor or guide.
5. Positive and Challenging Stars
When positive or beneficial stars are found in this house, it suggests blessings, joy, and pride through your children or juniors. However, if challenging or harmful stars appear here, it may point to difficulties, distance, or unexpected troubles connected to them.
2. CONNECTIONS
1. Children House and Property House (Opposite House)
The Property House sits directly across from the Children House and offers extra details about your children’s achievements outside the home. It can show how successful they may be in their careers, studies, or personal ventures. In business readings, it can also reflect how well a partnership or investment may perform beyond your immediate influence.
2. Children House and Parents House
The Parents House helps you understand the relationship between you and your children, as well as your overall approach to parenting. It can also mirror your attitude toward mentors, elders, or partners who guide or influence you. By studying this house together with the Children House, you can get a fuller picture of the family’s generational dynamics and support systems.
3. Children House and Friends House
This Friends House highlights your children’s social life and friendships. It may show the type of friends or networks they will attract and how they fit in socially. In business matters, it can describe the character or reliability of your partners, colleagues, or assistants—revealing who can be trusted and who might bring challenges.
4. Children House and Child–Property Line
The line connecting the Children House and the Property House is checked along with other house lines for deeper insights. It can indicate potential accidents or unexpected events involving your children, reveal the likelihood of extramarital affairs, point to financial opportunities or risks, and show whether business partnerships are likely to remain harmonious or face conflict.
3. TIPS FOR READING THE CHILDREN HOUSE
1. Look at the Whole Chart
When reading a Zi Wei Dou Shu chart, don’t focus on just one star or house. All the stars influence each other, so a single placement cannot tell the full story. Always study how the stars interact to understand the bigger picture.
2. Check Opposite and Trine Houses
To get a more complete reading, examine the houses directly opposite or forming a trine (a harmonious angle) with the one you’re studying. These connections often reveal hidden details or extra layers of meaning that a single house can’t show by itself.
3. Use House Pairings for Deeper Clues
Certain house pairings can uncover important insights. For example, the Child–Property line can hint at accidents, inheritance, or wealth opportunities. The Parent–Health connection may reveal family influences on well-being. The Sibling-Friend pairing can highlight potential issues or strengths in partnerships, teamwork, or support systems.
4. Focus on Quality Over Quantity
In modern times, astrologers focus less on predicting the exact number of children. Instead, the reading emphasizes the quality of relationships and the character traits of the people involved. This approach gives more useful and realistic guidance for today’s life situations.
5. Past Use for Predicting Children
In traditional times, astrologers often used this house to predict how many children a person would have. However, with modern changes like contraception, fertility treatments, and different lifestyle choices, these predictions are no longer as precise as they used to be.
6. Reliability for Childbirth Predictions
When trying to predict details about childbirth, women’s charts are usually a little more dependable than men’s charts. Even then, the information should be seen as a general guide, not a guaranteed fact.
7. Checking the Sun Star for First Child’s Gender
To make a guess about the gender of the first child, astrologers often look at where the Sun Star is located in the chart. If the Sun Star falls in a Yang sign - Rat, Tiger, Dragon, Horse, Monkey, or Dog - it suggests the first child is more likely to be a boy. However, from what I’ve observed, this isn’t always true.
8. Sun in Yin Signs
If the Sun Star is in a Yin sign - Ox, Rabbit, Snake, Goat, Rooster, or Pig - then the first child is more likely to be a girl. Again, these are traditional guidelines, not absolute rules, and modern factors can influence the outcome. Just like predicting a baby boy’s gender, based on my observations, this isn’t always accurate.
4. STARS IN THE CHILDREN HOUSE
(Below are general tendencies—interpretation depends on the whole chart.)
A. THE 14 MAJOR STARS IN THE CHILDREN HOUSE
2. Wu Qu (The Military Star)
With Wu Qu, families may have fewer children, but those children are strong-willed and determined. Parents raise them with discipline and high standards, which helps shape their resilience and work ethic.
3. Ju Men (The Messenger Star)
Ju Men parents or children tend to worry a lot about family matters. They are often outspoken and may voice their concerns frequently, which can cause arguments if not handled calmly.
4. Po Jun (The Disruptor Star)
With Po Jun, children are usually strong-willed and highly independent. They dislike being controlled and prefer to make their own decisions, which can sometimes cause tension if parents try to impose too many rules.
5. Tan Lang (The Charmer Star)
Parents or households influenced by Tan Lang tend to be indulgent. They may spoil their children or give too much freedom, which can sometimes lead to discipline issues or romantic distractions for the children as they get older.
6. Lian Zhen (The Integrity Star)
Lian Zhen energy makes parenting tricky. Parents may want to have control over their children but, at the same time, crave personal freedom themselves. This push-and-pull dynamic can create confusion or inconsistency in family rules.
7. Tai Yang (The Sun Star)
Tai Yang influences create active, generous, and enthusiastic children. They may have strong personalities and, at times, can be controlling toward siblings or friends, which requires gentle guidance.
8. Tai Yin (The Moon Star)
Tai Yin children are sensitive, talented, and caring. They often help others and bring a sense of gentleness and harmony to the family.
9. Tian Ji (The Strategist Star)
Tian Ji energy produces smart, friendly, and curious children. While they are quick learners, they may dislike strict or formal schooling and prefer flexible, creative ways of learning.
10. Tian Fu (The Treasury Star)
Tian Fu parents are good communicators and deeply care about their children’s success. However, they may prefer to give advice verbally instead of actively guiding or intervening, leaving children to figure out some things on their own.
11. Tian Tong (The Relaxed Star)
Tian Tong children are gentle, obedient, and easygoing. However, they may sometimes lack drive or ambition and need encouragement to stay motivated.
12. Tian Liang (The Blessing Star)
Children under Tian Liang are independent from a young age. They learn to take care of themselves and are especially filial and caring toward their parents—this is particularly noticeable in daughters.
13. Tian Xiang (The Minister Star)
Tian Xiang children are honest and respectful of rules. However, they can be sensitive to criticism or pressure, so parents should balance discipline with emotional support.
14. Qi Sha (The Power Star)
Parents can be very strict or stubborn in their approach to raising children. Because of this firm style, children may feel pressured or controlled and could rebel against authority as they grow older.
B. THE SUPPORT STARS IN THE CHILDREN HOUSE
➤Wen Chang Hua Ji: Suggests children may be overly emotional or sometimes rough in behavior.
➤Wen Qu Hua Ji: Suggests children or you may experience emotional troubles or worries.
C. THE 4 TRANSFORMATIONS IN THE CHILDREN HOUSE
D. THE MINOR STARS IN THE CHILDREN HOUSE
When Tian Ma Star is in the Children House, it suggests that your children may leave home early in life. You will not spend much time together, and both you and your children may experience frequent changes or moves. This movement can cause the parent–child bond to become increasingly distant over time.
3. Tian Kui (The Angel 1 Star)
When Tian Kui Star is in the Children House, your children are highly independent and rarely trouble their parents. If Tian Kui Star is alone here, it suggests your children’s achievements or reputation may surpass your own, and you will benefit from their blessings in the future.
4. Tian Yue (The Angel 2 Star)
Tian Yue Star in the Children House indicates talented children. Their ability is not simply based on intelligence but shows in practical matters—handling daily tasks with exceptional skill.
Children have fiery tempers. You will need patience and extra effort in their upbringing and discipline.
2. Ling Xing (The Siren Star)
Ling Xing in the Children House suggests weak affinity with children or lower fertility for you or your spouse. Children may have eccentric personalities, often disagree with parents, and can be stubborn and unyielding.
3. Qing Yang (The Knife Star)
With Qing Yang Star in the Children House, children may have a somewhat volatile or fierce temperament. During their growth, their health may be fragile and require careful care.
Also suggests fragile health during childhood, requiring attentive care.
5. Di Kong (The Misfortune Star)
Di Kong Star in the Children House points to withdrawn or solitary personalities in children. Parent–child bonds may be weak, so extra attention should be paid to nurturing the relationship.
6. Di Jie (The Calamity Star)
Similarly, Di Jie Star in the Children House suggests reserved, solitary children and a weaker parent–child relationship, requiring greater care and connection.
5. CHILDREN HOUSE BY ZODIAC BRANCH
1. Rat
Children born under the Rat sign are usually bright and quick-witted. They are naturally curious, eager to learn, and full of energy. Their lively nature makes them fun to be around, and they often adapt quickly to new situations. However, because they are so active, they may sometimes get distracted or restless, so gentle guidance helps them focus.
2. Ox
Ox children may appear a little slow to respond or act at first, but this is because they like to think things through before moving. They are steady, dependable, and once they settle into a routine, they are very reliable. Parents may need patience in the early years, but these children often grow into trustworthy and hardworking individuals.
3. Tiger
Tiger children are kind-hearted, brave, and quick in their thinking. They are friendly and often attract others with their open nature. These children are willing to help and defend those around them, showing leadership from a young age. At times, their boldness can make them impulsive, so teaching balance and caution is important.
4. Rabbit
Rabbit children can be affectionate but also more dependent on their parents or caregivers. They crave comfort, stability, and reassurance, which makes them sensitive to their environment. Gentle by nature, they are loving and caring, though they may need encouragement to build independence and confidence.
5. Dragon
Dragon children are dependable and trustworthy. They often show a sense of responsibility beyond their years and may naturally step into leadership roles among their peers. They take their duties seriously, and others tend to rely on them. However, because they want to be seen as reliable, they may sometimes feel pressure to always succeed.
6. Snake
Snake children are usually obedient, respectful, and attentive to their parents. They tend to listen well to guidance and may show maturity earlier than others. Their calm and thoughtful nature makes them wise in their decisions, though sometimes they may hold back emotions instead of expressing them openly.
7. Horse
Horse children are cheerful, energetic, and playful. They love adventure, fun activities, and spending time with friends. Their lively spirit makes them natural explorers, eager to try new things. While their enthusiasm is a strength, they may sometimes act without thinking, so parents should gently teach them responsibility and patience.
8. Goat
Goat children are gentle, kind, and peace-loving. They value harmony in relationships and dislike conflict. At times, they may seem slow in making decisions or adapting to changes, but this comes from their thoughtful and cautious nature. With encouragement, they grow into compassionate and supportive individuals.
9. Monkey
Monkey children are logical and practical. They like structure, rules, and problem-solving, often showing strong reasoning skills. These children may appear serious or strict in their thinking, but they are dependable when it comes to following through on tasks. They do well when given challenges that let them use their minds.
10. Rooster
Rooster children are independent and sometimes rebellious. They prefer doing things in their own way and may resist being overly controlled. Strong-willed and confident, they can achieve a lot if their independence is guided positively. Parents may need patience and flexibility to support them without stifling their individuality.
11. Dog
Dog children are loyal, steady, and trustworthy. They value honesty and responsibility, often keeping promises and completing their duties. They form strong bonds with loved ones and are dependable in both family and friendships. Their seriousness may sometimes make them cautious, but it also makes them reliable and caring.
12. Pig
Pig children are quiet, gentle, and introverted. They may not open up right away but are thoughtful and kind once they feel comfortable. Their caring nature makes them considerate of others, though they may need encouragement to express themselves more openly. With support, they grow into warm and dependable individuals.
6. KEY POINTS
Remember: These are general interpretations; their true meaning for you depends on the unique details of your individual birth chart and specific star placements and configurations.
All the stars discussed in this article are analyzed using the San He method to provide deeper insights. The Si Hua method doesn’t emphasize the detailed traits of individual stars or most of the minor stars; instead, it concentrates on the four transformers (Si Hua) to interpret outcomes.
Note: Since this star has been translated into many different English names both online and offline, preserving its original name in this article is essential to convey its true meaning.
