ABOUT
Mei Connection (命の関係)
Mei is Life.
A "Mei" connection happens when two people are born under the same star sign (宿). This is a rare and deep connection—there’s only a 1 in 27 chance of meeting someone like this. Even if you come from very different backgrounds, you naturally understand and respect each other. You support one another in quiet but meaningful ways, building strong and lasting trust.
It’s a special bond between two very similar people, like looking into a mirror. You see both your strengths and weaknesses in each other. This deep connection goes beyond distance, like an invisible red thread that ties you together—no matter how stretched or tangled, it never breaks.
Sharing an inn with this person symbolizes a powerful, fated link. They may feel like your soulmate, someone who shares many of your traits.
Because you're so alike, the relationship can feel intense and deeply familiar from the start. However, over time, that same closeness can lead to competition or tension. To keep the bond strong, it’s important to recognize your shared traits, accept your flaws, and keep growing together.
BASIC
Basic Mei Compatibility
Though rare, once you meet this person, the bond becomes so strong that it’s hard to separate. Because you're so alike, you can often read each other’s thoughts. But this can also lead to discomfort—you might see your own flaws in them and feel annoyed.
If you support each other with care and kindness, this person can become one of the most important people in your life.
LOVE
Love & Marriage in a Mei Compatibility
This pairing is like two hearts beat as one and it is a fated, rare and powerful connection—when you meet, it may feel like you've known each other forever. You understand each other easily, often share the same thoughts, and feel comforted by the same things. This strong sense of familiarity can lead to falling in love very quickly.
Because the bond is so deep, you’re likely to try hard to stay together, even when faced with challenges. This love can feel intense and emotional, sometimes even blinding you to problems or red flags.
In marriage, even if you come from different backgrounds or generations, you can still share similar values and build a long-lasting, supportive relationship. You’ll likely feel deeply connected and have a strong sense of destiny or karma tying you together.
However, being too similar can cause issues. You might start to feel irritated or emotionally drained over time, especially if you’re too close all the time. That’s why keeping a healthy emotional distance—even in marriage—is important.
You also know each other’s strengths and weaknesses so well that it’s easy to hurt one another during arguments. And because the bond is so strong, breaking up or divorcing can be very difficult, even if it feels necessary.
In the case of The Harmonious Shuku (Shi Shuku, Kaku Shuku, Bou Shuku and Kei Shuku) and The Peaceful Shuku (Hitsu Shuku, Yoku Shuku, Tou Shuku and Heki Shuku), their serene nature means they are unlikely to cause upheaval. Despite a strong initial impression, the emotional distance may take time to bridge.
Lastly, try not to act alone or make big decisions without considering your partner, as this can create confusion or cause problems in the relationship.
FRIENDS, FAMILY & WORK
Friends, Family, & Work in a Mei Compatibility
Since you think alike, it’s easy to work together in harmony. If you have different roles, you can both shine in your own ways. But if you're doing the same job, you might feel competitive or tense.
Clashes of pride can happen, with both of you unwilling to back down. Still, your presence can motivate each other and lead to great teamwork.
If more than two people with this connection are in a group, one might step back naturally, feeling their role isn't needed.
Because your bond is so strong, if you cooperate well, you can become an unbeatable team with amazing results.
Even if success doesn’t come right away, don’t rush or give up. If you stick with it, your powerful connection will help things go smoothly, leading to big achievements.
