ABOUT
Yu-Sui Connection (栄・親)
Yu is Friend.
Sui is Decline.
The "Friend-Decline (友・衰)" relationship is a destined connection often described as a "lovers' relationship." In this pairing, the "Friend" (友) constellation represents companionship and friendship., while the "Decline" (衰) constellation represents love and also weakness or decline. The "Friend" person is usually more confident and in control, while the "Decline" person may feel melancholic or less strong in the relationship.
BASIC
Basic Friend-Decline Compatibility
You share a deep, spiritual connection, which makes it easy to get along and build a balanced, peaceful relationship. You’ll admire each other, share similar values, and enjoy long, interesting conversations without getting bored.
Your connection is fun and meaningful, but it’s not always based on logic or practicality. It works best in private, personal settings, not necessarily in structured or professional ones.
Close-Distance
This connection is very deep, and you'll quickly open up to each other after meeting. As you spend more time together, your bond will grow stronger, and you'll feel a destined connection.
Mid-Distance
For friendships, this often leads to unmatched, irreplaceable best friends. The more time you spend together, the deeper your trust will become. However, it's a stable relationship, so it might lack excitement.
Far-Distance
Similar to close and mid-distance, this compatibility isn't bad. However, because your natures are fundamentally different, the connection isn't very strong. Bad timing or a long time to get close can hinder the relationship.
LOVE
Love & Marriage in a Friend-Decline Compatibility
You’ll feel a strong emotional bond and may fall for each other quickly, without thinking about whether it’s a good or bad idea. You can sense each other’s feelings easily, even without words, which helps you stay close and in harmony. The love between you might feel so intense that nothing else seems to matter. But be careful—not to get too attached or wrapped up in your own world, as it can make you lose sight of reality.
If you think about marriage, you might face hidden obstacles or pushback from others. Even if you marry for love, problems like money issues or small fights can add stress—often falling more heavily on one of you. Don’t ignore these challenges. Talk about them honestly and stay grounded. Just dreaming about a perfect future won’t be enough—you need a realistic plan to build a happy life together.
This match can also lead to a deep and enjoyable romance, and you may connect well as friends too, especially if you share similar interests.
Still, this relationship is sometimes called the “star of tragic love” because it can come with emotional highs and lows, or difficult situations that test your bond.
Close-Distance
Relationships in this category often have dramatic beginnings, and you'll fall in love quickly. If there's an age difference, it can surprisingly work out well due to similar hobbies and values. However, there's also a good chance it might end as a one-sided love.
You'll feel a sense of destiny, but when it comes to marriage, unseen forces might interfere. Trying to force it could lead to chaos and instability. You might also have difficulty having children.
Mid-Distance
This is considered the best compatibility for lovers. Over a long relationship, the initial spark might fade, but your trust will deepen significantly. If any problems arise in your relationship, common friends might step in to help.
Marriage in this pairing often faces many obstacles and interference. However, if you manage to overcome these challenges and marry, you can maintain a fresh, loving relationship like newlyweds even after years.
Far-Distance
Again, similar to close and mid-distance, the compatibility isn't bad, but the connection might not fully form. Poor balance or timing can often lead to one-sided love. Even if you become a couple, it seems like difficulties might always follow you.
While the compatibility isn't bad, you might find yourselves in perpetually difficult situations even after marriage. This pairing tends to work better if one of you has been married before. For first marriages, minor quarrels might be common, and you might not be blessed with children.
FRIENDS, FAMILY & WORK
Friends, Family, & Work in a Friend-Decline Compatibility
You'll resonate with each other's life views and values, making conversations flow endlessly. However, be careful in work situations, as you might tend to be too lenient in your judgments. This isn't a practical or logical work relationship; it's more of a friendly connection that thrives in private. So, when it comes to work, you might struggle to get in sync and find things awkward.
Financial gains might also be hard to come by. You often idealize each other, and this overly familiar relationship can lead to you invading each other's privacy. This creates a risk of blurring the lines between work and personal life, so be cautious. When starting a project, it's a good idea to add a realistic person to your team to create balance and ensure things run smoothly.
